A few years ago, I was desperate to get organized.
I read every article that promised to bring order to my life: “35 Timesaving Clutter Busters,” “100 Ways to Get Organized,” “How to Create a Saner, Simpler Life” – I read them all. I filled out calendars and planners, set up schedules and filing systems – several, as a matter of fact. But in a week or two, the house and the office looked like they had before and I felt lost in the mess.
Plenty of us are juggling many responsibilities, as parents, spouses, professionals, volunteers, HOME makers, cooks, family social organizers, children of aging parents – you name it! The merry-go-round was spinning too fast and the stress of it all sometimes turned me into a mean mama! With so much to keep track of, how could anyone feel relaxed enough to play spontaneously with our children or enjoy time with our spouses, without bringing up our to-do lists? Determined to do something about it, I sought help from a new breed of professionals – professional organizers. This article includes a few of the valuable lessons I learned from them.
Begin with a plan
A pair of professionals from All in Order, a Brookfield, Wisconsin-based company, spent a morning with me to help me develop a plan for the HOME front. (Professional organizers offer a variety of services for HOME and office clutter control, time and records management, and more.) They not only coach you through it; they will dig in and help you sort, file and toss, if that’s what you want them to do. My
HOME organization plan had three steps: developing a HOME information center, de-cluttering closets and creating a workable family schedule.
Create a HOME information center
Six steps to putting the information you need at your fingertips.
You may decide to pay bills and access your bank account online, setting up automatic payments. No matter how you do it, decide who will be responsible for keeping track and the best way for both spouses to have access to information. This is an important and personal decision – just make sure you have that conversation.
If you prefer to use a paper process, put everything you need in one container: a ledger, calculator, envelopes, and postage stamps, etc., and keep records current.
De-clutter – now and forever!
Professional organizers taught me two key rules for dealing with clutter:
So step by step (be gentle on yourself, it took years to collect all that stuff!), go through cabinets, closets and drawers, and take out anything you don’t use. Organize what is left, putting them in easy-to-see, easy-to-reach locations.
The All in Order team purchased clear containers for the spices, flour, sugar and such items in my pantry. When I opened the pantry doors, I could see what I had. The same approach was taken in the bedroom closet, bathroom cabinets and garage shelves. Purge, place and label.
Once your cabinets, closets, drawers and shelves are organized, establish a maintenance schedule to keep them that way. Make de-cluttering a routine.
I decided to devote an hour a day to the process: Monday – foyer and coat closets; Tuesday – kitchen cabinets and pantry; Wednesday – master bedroom closets; Thursday – children’s closets; Friday – bathroom cabinets; Saturday – garage; and Sunday – just relax and enjoy the order!
Create the life you want!
Time is life, life is time. How do I want to spend my time, and my life? That is what time management is all about.
So a first step is to consider one’s priorities. In my perfect life, I have time to care for my family and be engaged in their lives, time to relax and enjoy good friends, and time to be productive — to contribute in my profession and in my community. I’d also love to soak in a bubble bath, have a massage or a manicure/pedicure.
But where does all the time go? My professional organizers had me map out a week of my life, noting where I was spending my time. Then they put activities into categories and color coded them: pink – family time; green – professional work; yellow – HOME chores; purple – volunteer work; and blue – self-care. Life should be balanced – if one area of life is not getting its due, the whole balance is off kilter.
To find more time for the things you want to do, you have to consider where the time can come from.
Here are a few suggestions about how to find more time:
One of Oprah’s time-management gurus, Cheryl Richardson, author of “Take Time for Your Life,” said you can reevaluate your priorities and make a conscious decision about the life you would like to live. Then you can create that life.
Begin by asking yourself what you want, she care of your health, reduce stress, and create more balance in your life? Well, you’re not alone. More and more people are tired of the fast-paced, frenzied ‘information age’ and are interested in higher-quality lives — lives in which they have more time for themselves and their relationships, more energy to invest in their emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being.”
Organizing one’s life is not just about getting rid of clutter and meeting deadlines; it’s about improving the quality of your life.
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